Mom in cream dress stands holding baby daughter in a flower field at golden hour for family photos in Puyallup.

Tacoma Family Photography


From Mom Guilt to Mom Glow: How to Feel Confident in Family Photos



As moms, we’re often the photographer of our families, making sure everyone is documented and their memories captured. But when it comes to being in photos ourselves, we tend to step back, let someone else step in to the spotlight, or hide behind the kids.

If this sounds like you, you’re not alone. So many of us feel self conscious stepping in front of the camera. We worry about how we look, if we’ll like the photos, or if our smile is "good enough." But here’s the thing: your kids don’t see the insecurities. They see their mom, their safe place, their favorite person in the whole world.

Mom in cream dress squats down with young daughter standing in front of her while mom wraps her arms around daughter. They stand in a flower

So, how can you shift from struggling with mom guilt to feeling safe and confident in front of the camera? Here are some encouraging tips to help:


How to Go From Guilt to Glow: 

Mom, dad, young daughter and baby girl sit together on a blanket in a field of wild flowers for family photos in Puyallup.

I. Focus on the Moment, Not the Mirror

Instead of obsessing over how you look, think about what the session is about. It’s not a beauty contest (spoiler alert - you would win anyways); it’s about irreplicable moments with your kids. Embrace the quirks, the chaos, and the realness that makes your family real.

II. Choose Outfits That Make You Feel beautiful

Wear something that makes you feel pretty and comfortable. It doesn’t have to be anything special, just something that makes you feel good about yourself. Flowy dresses, soft sweaters, or even your favorite pair of jeans can do wonders for your confidence.

III. Trust Your Photographer

A good photographer knows how to photograph your best features and make you feel like the goddess you truly are. It’s my job to find the best angles, the perfect lighting, and the moments where you feel like yourself. Trust the pro and let me document your true beauty.

Remember Who You’re Doing This For


You’re not just taking photos for fun (ok it is fun, but that's not the end goal). You’re creating memories for your kids. When they grow up, they’ll have these photos to look back on, a gift of memories and love that only you can give.


Give yourself permission to be in the moment. Motherhood is wild and messy, and that’s what makes it unpredictable, fun, and so beautiful. The moments your kids will cherish most are the ones where you are with them just as you are.

Dad holds toddler son with mom holding dad's shoulder from behind as they both admire their boy who looks at the camera.

Remember Why It’s Worth It


One of the most incredible things I hear from moms after a session is how grateful they are that they decided to be included. The photos become more than just pictures; they’re a visual reminder of this stage in their family's journey.

So, the next time you’re tempted to jump out of the frame, think about what your kids would say. They’d tell you that you’re perfect to them, just as you are.



Are You Ready to Step In Front of the Camera?

Let’s create memories that celebrate the love, togetherness, and beauty of your family. Whether you’re camera-shy or feeling insecure, I’ll help you go from self conscious to glowing. Because you deserve this, and so do your babies.

Mom and dad sit together with their toddler son between them on a blanket picnic style for summer family photos in Tacoma.